My last (and, come to think of it, only) numerical analysis class was in 1973 or '74, when "absorption" was used neither for any type of error I recall nor for my processing of the subject matter. :-) Give or take terminology, I think you have the right idea there.
I'm not sure there is any particular order of magnitude at which things turn from "safe" to "dangerous". Dr. Ed Klotz (of IBM) once showed me a matrix, remembered from his student days, that caused numerical precision issues, and I seem to recall that it contained exclusively 0, +1 and possibly -1 as coefficients (and was not singular). Gremlins come in all sizes.
Generally speaking, if I see a largest-to-smallest coefficient ratio on the order of 1e+10 or higher, I start getting nervous, even if CPLEX says 100% of bases were stable. It's also somewhat context specific. In the problems I've worked with to date, any coefficient ratio above about 100 could be traced back to me being lazy about scaling the data.
I vaguely (very vaguely) recall encountering a problem once where substantial orders of magnitude differences among coefficients was unavoidable (I couldn't find a good way to scale things), and the problem caused the contemporary version of CPLEX indigestion. I think I solved it by decomposing into a master problem and a subproblem where the unit magnitude stuff pretty much all went into one problem and the 10^gazillion coefficients all landed in the other problem. It was basically equivalent to segregating the sumo wrestlers at one dining table and the jockeys at another (and, as would the analogy, avoided casualties).
Sorry I can't be more specific, but my sense is that rounding adventures defy neat characterization/classification.
Paul
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