Mark,
If we understand your questions, DB2 9.7 to 10.5 upgrade is a two step process - 9.7 to 10.1, and 10.1 to 10.5.
1. Power off both systems and take a point in time image snapshot of both systems
2. Power on both systems and remove the target server from the HADR cluster
3. Install a clean OS and instance of DB2 10.5 on the target server
4. Use Mx-Archive to migrate the tables from the 9.7 to the 10.5 system
5. Migrate any stored procedures, custom functions, etc
6. Test - confirm everything works as expected
7. Stand up a clean OS and DB2 10.5 instance on the source server
8. Add the source server to the HADR cluster
9. Resume normal operation
Happy to answer any questions.
Cordially,
Tanya McCall
Maxis Inc.
http://www.maxistechnology.com