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<table collapsewhenempty="true" beanclass="psdi.webclient.beans.workorder.SelectWORecordsBean" collapsed="false" id="plans_children_table" label="Children of Work Order {0}" orderby="wosequence" relationship="SHOWCHILDREN">
Also, it looks like collapsewhenempty is available in the conditional UI too: