Personally, just in my option, if what you are asking and aiming for is a robust solution in operation every day, pick a physical tape library with at least two tapes drives.
Then partition the library in two logic libraries, with a tape drive each, each visible to a system (one for windows, one for IBMi), avoiding each system to interfere with the other.
I use such solution using FC tape drives and SAN switches.
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