Thanks for those suggestions.
I fooled around with it a bit after I got back from vacation.
In the end, I used the full path to the metal headers, such as:
#include "/usr/include/metal/metal.h"
Not optimal, but functional.
I'll have to return to this someday and learn more about the way that the options file works. I think that file is where I'd tailor this for each developer, but right now just building a proof-of-concept for something else.