Hi Nageswara,
If you have requests balanced by a WebSphere Plugin, you can put the server as backup rol.
From 8.5 infocenter but still valid from v6.1.
pic.dhe.ibm.com/infocenter/wasinfo/v6r1/... "The plug-in does not load balance across the backup application servers. A backup server is only used if a primary server is not available."" Your other cluster members need be working fine.
You only need to go through admin console:
Servers > Server Types > WebSphere application servers > server_name, and then, in the Additional Properties section, click Web server plug-in properties.
Change Server Role from Primary to backup.
Regenerate and propagate the plugin. Live connections will finish and new ones will redirected to other cluster members. When you see that you haven't activity you can "work" with server configuration and stop/start. When the server is up, you can change the role and teh server will receive again requests.
For maintenance purpose I have used and in a lot of clients.
As Joseph's suggest you need to review your environment configuration to avoid exaustion of the connection pool.
Hope this helps. Tell us if you need more support.
Regards