Hi Hari,
You need to change your host ports in your servers. from IP or hostname to a generic DNS name
From console:
stop node agents or quit automatic synchronization.
Servers->WebSphere Application Servers->SERVER_NAME->ports
Change your host from actual hostname/IP to your DNS name.
Change DMGR host from
System Administration->DMGR->Ports
In datasources, change the host of DB from IP or Host to DNS name
Save the configuration.
Stop and start DMGR. When you have DMGR up and running with DNS names...
Synchronize nodes manually (stop servers and launch synchNode)
Start nodes
Do a test of your DR!!!!
I have in several customers with DR in this way.
Hope this helps. Tell us if you need more support
regards